Why Everytime Boys should be blamed? Part-2 (Controversy Questions)
-By Ritu Raj Prince
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Jaisa ki Maine Pichle Post Me Kaha Tha Ki Jitna Galti Boys ka Hota Hai Utna Hi Galti Girls ka Bhi Hota Hai..Qki bina girls ke permission ke boys ka himmat ni h kuch kar le aur girls apne limit me rhe toh Boys kuch nii Kar Skta Hai..........
Mere Iss Post se Kuch Ldkiyon ne controversy uthayi...Main respect krta hu unki baaton ka....Un sbka Kehna Ye tha ki 5years or even 5months ki bachhi ke saath rape ho jata hai toh isme wo bachhi jo thik se bol bhi nii paati aur na chal paati hai...wo kon sa limit cross ki...Ye Baat Unka 100% correct hai......Main un sbko yahi kehna chahunga wo log jo aise critical incident ko anjam dete hai....wo mentally weak hote hai...aur na unko proper parwarish...achhi siksha...aur ldkiyon ka respect krna nii sikhaya gya hoga......Maine jo kaha mentally weak honge..or achhi siksha nii mili hogi...toh main har point ko deal krunga....usse pehle main thoda apne baare me bta deta hu...Mera naam Ritu Raj Prince..aur main ek bio student ho......As a bio student main apna opinion share kr rha hu...isme kuch strong word bhi aaskte hai...uske liye main maafi mangta hu...Qki as a bio student....Jo such hai wo main bolunga... aur mujhe wo bolne me sharm nii aani chahiye...Qki mera future profession jo ki doctor hai..usme sharm naam ki jagah nii hai...bs ek hi chiz hai apne kaamo ko imandaari ke saath dil se krna.....toh ab main point pr aata hu....
1- Mentally Weak:-
Main mentally weak iss basis pr bol rha hu ki wo psychological weak hai...wo lakh kyun na pdhai me achha ho...agr wo psychology strong ni hai toh wo person society k liye bahut khatarnak hai...Qki usko khud nii pta hota hai ki wo kya kar rha hai aur wo kya krne ja rha h.... Uske dimaag me tbhi jo chlta hai wo wahi krta hai...bahut se aise news hai...jisme ek ldka apne parents ka murder kr deta hai....phir achanak turant wo rone lgta hai ...usko realise hota h ki usne bahut hi distrustful crime kiya hai...usi trah rape bhi attempt hote hai....Aaj ke time rape cases kyun increase rapidly kr rha hai....Qki Bachhe Psychology strong nii hai...physical bahut fit hai...lkin mentally bahut weak hai.....aur ye baat na parents manne ko tayar hai aur na bachha....
Abhi ke time class 7-8 ke bachhe unsensored things dekhte hai ya girlfriend banne me lage hue hai...jo ki bilkul galat hai...aur uss class 7-8 ke bachhe ki age hi kitni hoti hogi..wahi mushkil se 13-14 k around...Usko ye smjh nahi hoti hai ki hm jo dekh rhe hai wo sahi hai ya galat...Usko ye nii pta rhta hai ki wo jo dekh rha hai wo reel life hai..jo ki sb scripted rhta hai pehle se...aur real life bahut different hai reel life se...Wo jis dress m opposite sex ko dekhta h uss clip me wahi dress aaj kal real life me fashion bna hua hai aur uss dress me pura bodyshow hota hai...jis wajah se bachhe ko lgta hai ki reel life wali baat sahi hai aur real life me bhi aisa hi hota hai...Ki agr hum kisi opposite gender ko aise sb dress m dekhenge aur uske saath aisa sb kuch krenge jo usse clip m dekha h toh usko bhi achha lgega....Main yahan kisi bhi type k dress k baare m kuch bol hi nii rha hu.....Qki Rape Jo Hoti Hai wo kisi bhi dress m ho skti hai...wo aap chahe burkha me ho ya mini dresses m....yahan dresses ka topic matter nii krta hai....but ye short dress bhi kahin na kahin iska jimedar hai...Ab kyun hai toh wo bhi btata hu.....Bachhe ne wo unsensored clip dekhi..thik hai usne dekh li..chalo yahan tak na chahte hue phir bhi maan lete h thik hai....Ab uske dimaag me wahi sb chlte rhega jo wo clip m dekhta hai...aur wo bahar aaya ab wo girls ko dekha jo short dresses m hai ab unke mind m negative thoughts aane shuru hogye aur wahin se wo bachha psychologically weak hote ja rha hai...Then jaise jaise wo bachha grow krega uska ye negative thoughts lust me convert ho jayega...aur ab jis kisiko bhi dekhega..wo chahe koi bhi dress me, dress matter uske liye ab nii krta hai....Qki ab uska mind uske control me nii hai..uska mind uss hawas ke control me hai jo usko galat kaam krne ko majboor kar de rha hai.....Aur Isme Parents ka Bhi Glti Hai...Ab Parents ka galti kaise hua...toh suniye Abhi Bhi India me mostly Parents Apne Ward ke saamne ye sex education k baare m bolne se ghabrate hai ya bol hi nii paate hai...aur dusri baat y bhi hai ki unke paas time hi nii rhta hai bachhe ko dekhne k liye ki unka bachha kis way me ja rha hai....Aur shayad ye bhi baat hai ki Most Parents ko Sex Education k baare m hi Nii pta Hoga Ki Akhir ye hota kya...wo sex k name sunte hi maano tumne bahut bda gaali de diya ho..wo isko gaali smjhte hai....aur unko ye nii pta hai ki aakhir sex education hota kya hai........
Note:-
1:-
Kuch Ldkiyon ab Bolegi ki main kuch bhi pehnu usme tmko kya hai...Aur aaj generally ye dekha ja rha hai ki girls women empowerment k naam pr short dress pehanna sikha rhi hai.....toh main unko yahi bolna chahunga ki Meeko Koi Problem Nii hai Aap kuch Pehno ka Na Pehno...Lkin Apko ye soch smjhke pehna chahiye ki sbka mind ek jaisa nii hai...aur kiske mind me kya chal rha hai aur wo kya kr dega aap wo jnti nii ho....Aur Haan Ek Baat Aur Jo girl Women Empowernent ka mtlb janti hai na toh wo bahut aage tak ja rhi hai...aur life me success ho rhi hai....Main Phir Bol Rha Hu Ki Main Kisi k personal life ya dress k baare m nii bol rha hu aur na mujhe haq hai bolne ka...
Suggestion type:-
Didi log aap jisko bhi apna boyfriend bna rhe ho na...sbse pehle uska aap mentality dekho ki wo dusron ko kis nazar se dekhta hai...Aur wo apni girlfriend se kya expectation rkhta hai...Qki abhi ke time agar apke maan me hai ki girlfriend bnaunga..phir usko kiss krunga toh ye bhi hawas ka hi ek part hai...jo ki time ke saath uska expectation bhi bdhte jayega....Abhi Ka Jo Generation Hai Na wo bilkul ek trah se hawasi generation bolne m mujhe koi galat nii lgega...Qki abhi sb koi apni hawas mitane k piche lga hua hai........Jaise Kuch Months Pehle se Corona K wajah se India me lockdown hai.....May m ek survey aaya internet department(exact name yaad nii aarha hai) toh usme ye btaya gya ki India kya dekh rha hai toh Porn dekh rha hai...jb ki uss time Bahut Hi Achhi Serials Govt. Ke through provide ki ja rhi thi Jo thi Ramayan and Mahabharat...Ye manta hu ki Mostly Indian ye series dekh rhe the...Main bhi dekh rha tha Ramayan....Lkin Phir Bhi Dharmik Chiz ko dekhne k baad Bhi Indian wahi unsensored chiz dekh rha tha...Aur wo survey ka link maine comment section me de diya hai..aap chaho toh wahan se re-verify kr skte ho......
2:- Proper Education
Education is not all about to get job...It creates a wall among human being and animal...Education makes human being unique from other creatures...That's why human being is best creature of the God....So come to the point....Now a question arises that--- Is educated people not attempt rape?
So come to the point that-
Society ke nazron me educated wahi hai jo Pdha Likha Ho....Aur Jo Pdha Likha Nahi Hai wo educated nahi hai....Jo Ki Society ki Thinking Bahut Galat Hai....Bs Kitabi Gyaan Hone se hum ye nii bol skte hai ki wo educated hai ya nahi hai...usme manner bhi hona chahiye...opposite gender k liye respect bhi hona chahiye....jaise ki ek so called educated person bahut pdha likha hai lekin usko na baat krne ki tameez hai aur na usme sanskar hai toh kya use educated person bolna chahiye ya Uss person ko bolenge Ki jo jyada educated nahi hai lkin usko baat krne ki tameez hai...opposite gender k liye respect aur love hai..obivous hai hum aise hi person ko educated person bolenge jisme sanskar hai...Achhi Habits hai aur jo sbki care krta hai..
.toh ab baat ye aati hai ki education ka kya role hai rape hone ya na hone me toh mera ye opinion hai ki...Agar Bachhe ko Shuru Se Proper Sanskar mile...Ause Opposite gender ka respect krna sikhaye...dusron k maa behan k liye achhi siksha de...care krna sikhaye toh wo bachha kbhi koi glt kaam nii krega wo chahe kitna bhi opposite gender bodyshow kre ya nude ho...Qki wo bachha ka sansar usse kuch galat krne se rokega...aur isme bs parents ka hi role nahi hai....Isme Schools ka sbse jyada important role hai..Qki bachha apna maximum time school me hi spent krta hai....Isi wajah se Govt. Ke through Sex Education Among youngster introduce kiya ja rha hai...Taki Youngster k among awareness la ske jisse wo wrong step par na chle but abhi bhi bahut kaam schools me ye Sex Education ki pdhayi hoti hai...jis wajah se Youngster me opposite gender k liye sirf gande thoughts hi rhte hai...Isme main kisi community m nii bol rha hu ki boys aisa hai ya girls..but wo chahe koi kyun na ek baar na toh ek baar jrur uske maan me ganda thoughts aaya hoga opposite gender k liye...ye swabhawik hai...Qki Hum Wahi Sikhte hai jo society me hum dekhte hai ya jo chlte aarha hai...Toh Hum Aap ko Aage aana hoga aur Ye Society ke Thoughts ko Badlna Hoga...Aur Ye Rape Jaisi crime ko zar se khtm krna hoga...kaha jaye toh rape koi crime hi nii hai...ye person ki weak mentally hai jo aise ghin hone chiz krti hai...Toh Hume Milke Iss Desh ko sudharna hai aur aisa bana hai Country ko Ki Kisi Bhi Maa Behan Bahu ko kisi se koi darr na ho aur wo apna sar uthake chal sake...Abhi ek dailogue bahut trending ne hai girls ko papa ki pari nahi papa ki sherni bnao..Toh Ye Baat Bhi Apko Pta hoga ki Sherni ka bhi Shikar Hota Hai....Isliye sbse pehle People ko aware krna jruri hai..bs social site pr RIP story lgane se nahi hoga..hum sbko People ko Local Level Par Jake Aware Karna Hoga...Taki Desh ka Har Youth Burai Ko Zar se khatm krne me apna Pura Yogdan De.....
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